Have you ever made a decision and later wondered—Did I actually want this, or did I just think I was supposed to want it?
It’s so easy to get caught in the flow of what everyone else is doing. The house, the car, the career path, the latest health trend—sometimes it feels like we’re all moving on autopilot, checking off boxes without stopping to ask:
Is this truly what I want?
This isn’t about judgment—it’s about curiosity. About pausing for a moment and making sure that the life you’re building is one that actually aligns with your values, your priorities, and what makes YOU happy.
How to Know If You’re Following Your Path or Someone Else’s
Here are a few gentle questions to check in with yourself:
💡 If no one else could see my choices, would I still make them?
It’s natural to want approval and validation, but at the end of the day, your life is yours to live. If no one was watching, would you still be pursuing this goal?
💡 Does this bring me real joy and fulfillment, or just temporary validation?
Some things look fulfilling from the outside but don’t actually make us happy on the inside. Pay attention to whether you feel at peace or if you’re just waiting for the next thing to chase.
💡 Am I making this choice because I want it, or because I feel like I should?
There’s a big difference between wanting something for yourself and feeling pressure to want it because it’s what’s expected. It’s okay to step outside the “norm” if it aligns better with who you are.
Breaking Free from the Comparison Trap
If you realize you’ve been making choices based on external pressures rather than personal passion, that’s okay. Awareness is the first step to realignment.
✨ Give yourself permission to shift. It’s never too late to reroute your energy toward what truly matters to you.
✨ Start small. You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight—just start making little choices that feel more aligned with YOU.
✨ Let go of the pressure to “keep up.” The people who matter will support you for who you are, not for what you have or what you do.
Your Challenge This Week: Check In with Yourself
Take a few quiet moments to reflect. Ask yourself:
- Is there an area of my life where I’m following the crowd instead of my own heart?
- What’s one small step I can take to make sure I’m building the life I truly want?
No right or wrong answers—just an opportunity to check in, recalibrate, and move forward with more intention and authenticity.
💬 What’s one choice you’ve made recently that truly felt like YOURS? I’d love to hear in the comments!